Many intending couples are in a one-sided relationship.
The “fire and vibe” in the relationship should be mutual and not one sided. This is very vital if you intend to enjoy a successful relationship.
A situation where you are the only “investor” in the relationship while the other party keeps reaping the “dividends” is not proper.
Remember, you might end up marrying the person.
So are you going to continue being the stabilizing force in the relationship forever?
Do you think one partner can successfully sustain a relationship emotionally?
How real can this be before you say “I Do”?